
"Social distancing" will be an enormous sacrifice, she said, but where there is sacrifice there is love, and where Love is, God is. We felt the difficulty already at the exchange of peace, elbow bumping and sending "namaste" bows across the room, and even more talking to friends after the service, a meter or more from each other. It's caring distance, loving distance, what Rebecca Solnit calls being "separated by love," but painful sacrifice too. It will be harder still with our beloved space shuttered. (The Holy Apostles Soup Kitchen, too, is suspending most operations, will be offering bag lunches from a tent outside.)
The next stop in what has become our Sunday routine was Variety Coffee. Nearly empty when we arrived, it filled up a little while we sat, but by the end of the day the news was out that it, together with all the city's bars, restaurants and cafes, will have to close indefinitely. Weeks, possibly months without these spaces and their nourishment! The transition to online interaction we've been planning for college classes now faces us in the rest of our lives - but how can you replace the animal warmth of a bustling coffee shop, or a worship community in prayer or song? Love will win, but separation by love will hurt so.